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when the word Mistress is mentioned one wants to think it's all about whips and chains ...leather and lace....beatings and thrashings....
the truth is the talents of a Dominatrix lay in the ability to reframe the identity of Her protege....in the case where feminization is involved a Mistress reshaping the male mind into a feminine persona mirrors that of using hypnosis.
Mistress DarklLady had decided She wanted Her alyssa to have a benignly submissive and gentle feminine personality. once Mistress was in my head the journey to womanhood as a t-gurl began in earnest...
Dominatrix Camille decided She wanted it to manifest itself in the trappings of a girly-gurl who would be domesticated contended doing housework and domestic chores.
Her goal was to have alyssa become the kind of feminine being who would make a pretty and obedient wife for a dominant man while also being docile enough to have a gentle yielding feminine nature....
make no mistake about it...when you are with a Mistress you 'are' in a Female Led Relationship....it is one where She sets the course...that will eventually lead to complete transformation into Her vision for you....
the latest from Cat Boulder...(a usual i've put it through the t-girl transformation process)
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"Let’s get one thing straight: as a Woman influence is your divine right."
(look up the word 'divine' as the definition of the verb is...to perceive intuitively...the male population may not want to admit it yet it's a known fact Women have a better grasp of their powers of intuitiveness.) it speaks to their knowledge and the ability to understand a situation as it plays out.)
Cat Boulder continues...
"But why settle for surface-level power when you could rewrite the script entirely? Hypnosis isn’t just for parlor tricks or stage shows; it’s a deeply intimate tool that, when used with care and consent, can reinforce your authority and guide him toward unshakable devotion."
( where there is devotion ...one will find ....controlled behavior follows)
"Let’s dive into this seductive realm of hypnotic power and explore how you can integrate it into your FLR to inspire behavior, devotion, and obedience from your t-girl protege."
An FLR is built on trust, mutual understanding, and a little flair for authority. Hypnosis can serve as:
x) A tool for habit-building: Reinforce routines that benefit your dynamic, like acts of service or rituals of devotion.
x) a method for deepening obedience: Make following your lead feel as natural to him as breathing.
x) A path to emotional connection: Strengthen his sense of loyalty and admiration for you, not just through his conscious mind but in his very essence.
alyssa here..
.'it is my observation having experienced it... that... Hypnosis is about creating a sense of peaceful awareness free of any stress. A talented therapist will then continue until they have reached the subconscious mind. Most people dismiss it as some kind of Las Vegas stage show trick yet once inside the subconscious a whole new set of beliefs can be established while eradicating the old ones that had guided a persons life. essentially a hypnotherapist can take a flame thrower to old beliefs in order to create fresh ones that act as a guide to living
The subconscious is the seat of a person’s will and call to action….once they truly believe something and are given commands the subconscious will pursue them relentlessly until they are achieved and maintained.
One sees it with long distance marathon runners…as part of their training they reach a meditative state while running. During the practice they often repeat that they ‘will finish’ the race. If they are in shape and use to running the long distances they will cross the finish-line that for most people is something they consider unthinkable.
The one caveat is the script and words being used ‘have to’ be in the positive. The subconscious does not recognize contractions such as no, not, can’t or won’t. In fact the subconscious mind inverts them..if a hypnotist for example says ‘you won’t be a man anymore…the mind hears you ‘will’ be a man.
here is part of a hypnotic script i wrote along with help from a script i came across ...for a recent story that can be found on my tvChix page or Fetlife page.....( i like to write what i call Femdom trans-erotic stories...its a thing i have i guess.)
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“You feel yourself dropping down into a pink fog…your mind is letting go of all worries and concerns…you’re falling deeper and deeper …you can feel your mind opening up to a new way of being…a new way of acting…a new way of thinking…all of your concerns and fears have gone away.”
“…the deeper you go the better it feels… you can feel the ‘pink fog’ surrounding you….enveloping you….it is bringing you to a place of feminine comfort … a place where you are at peace with your feminine side…you can feel it expanding…you can feel the peace of mind your feminine side brings as it enlarges …it is the real you….you know this to be true.”
“You are in a state of acceptance…Your mind is open and receiving….ready to be programmed….ready to accept ….ready to agree…ready to comply…you are submissive…open and accepting…willing and able…ready to obey…mind open…giving in to my words… dropping deeper …falling fast…deeper down…absent thoughts… absent escape…absent fear…you are hear to listen and obey…to absorb the words…”
“You are such a good subject…always so submissive ..eager to submit…eager to surrender….ready for instructions…wanting to be trained…needing to be programmed ….open and accepting…willing and able…ready to obey…mind open…giving in to my words… dropping deeper…you want to go deeper …listen and absorb…able to obey…making it easier….easier to give in…mind open…just listening…ready to obey.”
“Who you thought you were is going away….you are ready to experience the real person you’ve always been deep inside… you repeat it throughout your day…”
“My name is Jennifer and my life is about becoming a woman… I am living as a trans-woman focused on my changes…I am a very feminine being…deep in my heart I’ve always known I am a female….I know this to be true.”
“It’s time my old career goes away…that’s a job for a man…and I am a trans-woman…I have feminine feelings…feminine sensibilities …I’d much rather be at home keeping the house clean than to try and do a man’s job…”
“I believe women as a whole are superior to me in every way….I am grateful whenever a woman uses me for her own benefit.….when a woman speaks I will be silent.…whatever women demand from me I will give.”
“Listen to my voice now…You love being in your pink fog… whenever you hear those two words they all act as a trigger…helping you to slip deeper into your femininity… you are gurl enough to be a woman…and woman enough to be a silly gurl…when you want to.”
“Lets talk about your sexuality …you consider yourself to be a bi-sexual lesbian…You enjoy worshiping the pussy of Lana your female spouse yet you also are attracted to men.”
“Each passing day you feel your sexuality as a woman coming more alive…you find masculine men are attracted to you….the more manly they are the more of a woman you feel…you like to show off your body to men…you like to perform for them …you like to dance for them….you feel your feminine sexuality comes alive when you are displaying your luscious body.”
“When you think about men you know there’s just something about their cocks that turns you on…..the way they throb.…the way they pulsate …like so many women and gurls you love the feeling of having a cock inside you….you enjoy the way it fills up your feminine senses.”
“You love cock…mens cocks …strap-on cocks…your dildo’s and vibrators and even your butt plugs."
“Continuing our review lets go over things…your feminine grooming regimen is very important to you…so too is your nail-care…you keep your toes and fingernails well manicured and polished in color at all times.…”
"You absolutely love wearing your lingerie…you enjoy being in high heels…women’s shoes are important to you…you practice getting better at applying your make-up everyday… you love doing your hair…you know for a woman like you her hair is like the royal crown of a princess that she always keeps on…”
“As a woman you are kind and generous …you are sweet and sensitive…you convey a gentleness …a warmth…a passivity…a cooperativeness….you enjoy being tender and affectionate ….being emotional and helpful…being empathetic and understanding…"
“You’ve become very conscious of your diet….being a gurl your shapely figure matters to you…you only eat when you are hungry and even then you are cautious….you like being thin and weak…so remember your mantra…’fruits and veggies are here to stay…carbs and sugar have gone away’.”
“You will listen to this audio file every morning after you wake…and in the evenings before going to sleep…you enjoy the way it affirms your femininity….you’ll always remember …you have a gentle yielding feminine nature.”
“Whenever you hear the words ‘Pink Fog’…you’ll always remember ….my name is Jennifer and I am transitioning into a very feminine being….I am focusing on my changes….you love everything there is about being a female…from being in your intimate wear to spending time out shopping and picking out pretty dresses skirts and shoes….from cleaning a home..wearing your aprons… to sucking a man’s cock …you know deep in your heart you are a woman who celebrates her femininity.”
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Cat's article is well written...i suggest you read it...
moving on i should say sorry i know that was kind of long...
maybe it's just me....being with a Mistress is about 'conditioning'....
there is a fine line between pain and pleasure.....
breaking a male has him adapting new behaviors...most often submissive in nature....clinging to masculinity is difficult to hold on to when penetration is brought into the equation...the sensations of taking a phallus awakens new nerve endings within the inner-canal wall....
a conditioned mind is open to the tactile sensations that come with femininity....the weight of breasts resting in a lace-embroidered bra...the tug of a taut brassiere strap....
ruffles and bows...ribbons and lace-edging....sheer stockings on smooth-shaven legs....the feeling on a face of the light added weight of make-up...mascara drenched eyelashes....powdered cheeks...the slickness of glimmering richly applied lipstick and its color....the feelings of teetering in high heels....the unruly nature that comes with the gentle bounce of crinoline and petticoats....the subtle weight of earrings dangling from off the lobes....the way the bounce of curled lengthy hair feels as it sways or even just lays there...
the feelings of femininity are addictive...unlike anything a male has felt before...they make it easy for a condition mind to cry out for more of the same....until a t-girl protege can't live without those feelings and sensations....
a conditioned mind is open an receptive to being on female hormones... and full-rounded breast are just part of the gift....so too for the feeling of hairless soft-skinned smoothness...
what becomes interesting is how quickly the conditioned mind of a t-girl adapts to being in a chastity cage....
in some ways it becomes a badge of honor....
t-girl chastity is a declaration of sorts...it is the abandoning of masculinity in exchange for living without a penis directing their thinking...
i was amazed at how quickly i accepted it...within a few weeks of being Dominatrix Camilles slave-gurl i began wearing my chastity 'jewelry' everyday......i am a couple of months away from being in it for 6 years...out of 2,191 days there has been only a few weeks if added up that i haven't had it on....it has become as natural as wearing my bra and panties and other delicate-wear....
that gurls is conditioned behavior...that has become normal....
we've touched on just some of the physical effects of being conditioned into t-girl womanhood...
the most profound impact of conditioning lay in the feminine persona that is created and lived daily...
feminine conditioning may start off being kept housebound by a Mistress.... the safety of being in a cocoon of femininity under the direction of a superior Woman....
i call that period 'working through the ugly-duckling' stage of a gurls transformation...
yet a Mistress wants her gurl to be out and about...feeling like a woman...living like a woman....experiencing life as a woman...
if i have it right...her Mistress wanted her gurl to feel what its like being a ...hmmm...how can i say this nicely...being a street-walker...
i learned being out helps build a confidence.... in accepting being who you are and what you've become...
bless me father ...for i am about to sin....
she's fully conditioned into believing 'she is a transitioned t-girl'.....
the stuffed animal brigs out an adolescent-like quality of innocence ...she may not be taken serious in matters of import but she's become too cute too gurlish to worry about things like that...
i was going to speak on how a conditioned mind opens up a gurl to letting others see how she has accepted being femininely objectified...and willing to show off her whole body if need be to prove it...
the gurl is conditioned enough to enjoy pleasuring a man....
the feeling of a hard cock pulsating within you ...it doesn't get more t-girl than that...besides that was what Mistress intended for you when things first began ....peace, alyssa
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great set of images alyssa 😘