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the article above caught my eye.... it speaks to a Woman no longer content to live under the constraints or even a tacit acceptance of the patriarchal ways in a marriage relationship.
it comes in a time of post-election where there is a surge of male bluster an actions.....as they attempt to roll back the gains of Women and LGBTQ Gay rights with an emphasis especially on trans rights and care..
'Where Musk leads, others follow. Meta chief Mark Zuckerberg has recently ceded fact-checking to the “community,” and noted the need for a more “masculine” and “aggressive” corporate culture. Zuckerberg also ended the company’s diversity equity and inclusion policy, which minorities rely upon for some degree of workplace protection.'
Like Trump, Musk appears to support women’s protections when they are politically useful to him in fanning division—a common far-right tactic.
Project 2025’s plans for women students and workers would devastate their educational opportunities, harming their careers and earning power.
Project 2025 eviscerates women’s long-held rights to sex equality in the workplace. It calls for the next president to rescind executive orders signed by President Lyndon B. Johnson in the mid-1960s that prohibited federal contractors from discriminating on the basis of race and sex, and it would weaken Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits sex discrimination in employment.
First, it would narrow the meaning of the word sex in Title VII to mean the “biological binary meaning of ‘sex,’” allowing employment decisions based on gender stereotypes. In 1989, the Supreme Court ruled that an accounting firm violated Title VII when it denied a woman partnership based on partners’ comments that she needed “a course in charm school” and should “walk more femininely, talk more femininely, dress more femininely, wear make-up, have her hair styled, and wear jewelry.”
Project 2025 would reverse this interpretation—which would also exclude LGBTQ+ people from Title VII protections in defiance of the Supreme Court’s 2020 decision
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as always there is an ebb and flow to life...and this includes the rising tides of Female empowerment. in some ways the pushback by men and the 'old boy network' was to be expected...yet throughout it all.... the world of Female Domination continues to expand. Google trends doesn't allow any 'cut n paste' of its categories ....yet a look has revealed the topic FemDom remains of high interest.
one thing remains true... a Dominatrix knows power is never given ...it is taken.
the same could be said by Female dominants and the submissive males that crave being with them.
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found on a Femdom sub-Reddit feed
"One Saturday afternoon after arguing I put a bra and plain top of mine on my husband when he came to me to apologize. In an instant I realized it was like I handed superman a slab of kryptonite. Thomas spend the afternoon nervously toying with the straps and band while i had him doing laundry and some ironing. Later on when i went to check on the quality of his work I found a simple rub to his crotch had him hard as a rock."
"I knew I'd found the solution to the constant bickering we would experience from time to time being married the past 11 years. Keeping him in the bra and top that I'd given him after slipping his jeans and socks off I led him to the couch. Having him lie there I mounted him while feeing a surge of what can only be called my female power. I rode him to one of the best orgasms I ever had."
"From then on I have never looked back and have been in control of our marriage ever since. That evening for bed he was put in panties and a simple nightgown. Nothing too overtly feminine but a nightie nonetheless."
"I've gradually added other items starting first with Thomas wearing panties at home on the weekends. It was a change in our marriage that brought a profound attitude shift on his part. He has been wearing panties ever since for over 3 years. And I've long since stopped caring who might know it and that includes his friends. Though to be honest I have weened him off hanging out with the men he used to spend time with."
"Thinking his days at home could be better spent and more productive I shifted Tom to doing parts of the housecleaning until it became his responsibility to keep everything clean."
"It all worked to both of us discovering he had a submissive nature that could be easily manipulated by me. Sex for my husband was put on the reward system. This is where male chastity came into our lives. A casual friend at my beauty salon told me about male chastity devices. It is quite a thrill to watch your husband shave his legs and keep his body hairless including his pubes before having him ask to wear his panties."
"The past 3 years I have kept Thomas in 4 different styles of chastity cages and his collection of women's lingerie including bras has expanded."
"I have to say he has become very sweet since we began. For someone that was at times overbearing it is quite a change in demeanor. I have taught him to help with my grooming needs like giving me manicures and pedicures and washing and setting my hair. Thomas grew very quiet when doing these things which told me I should increase them. We have carefully grown out his hair to a length that borders on feminine. I'm certain other women can notice its softer texture and silky flow. I also had told him I wanted to have his ears pierced. Earrings have become part of his daily look."
"We have broached the topic a few times yet i think he knows one day I'll expect him to be out with his closet and drawers filled with woman's clothing and lingerie along with other essential accessories that comes with living as a woman.."
Linda R.
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Looking for ideas for a femdom wedding/vow renewal. Grateful for any and all suggestions!
We are planning a femdom wedding (technically vow renewal since already married). We are looking for any and all suggestions or ideas for things to include or do.
We are already thinking about things like including a collaring ceremony, cross dressed groom as bride, chastity, special vows, etc.
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I would have the man mostly naked, and have the ring pass only from the woman to the man, so it’s unequal.
Maybe you lock him in chastity, or put a ring around his cock that is intended to be permanent in some way...
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How about him reciting his vows on his knees. Maybe kiss your feet or bow to you.
Obviously incorporate submissive language like "I will follow your every command, and desire."
You walk out in front while he follows behind.
HappySubGuy321
Maybe a simple idea, but she could wear her wedding ring as a toe ring, while he wears his on his finger? During the ceremony, he could kneel down to kiss her foot and put the ring on her.
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moving ever closer to the point of no return....
"Male submission is more common than you think—and more rewarding than you can imagine!"
“If Alicia Zadig is half as good a Domme as she is an author, then she surely leaves her submissives begging for more. Written with erudition, authenticity, and exuberance, Yes, Mistress takes you to the erotic edge and lets you peer into an underground that is fascinating, revelatory, and challenging of the gender assumptions and power dynamics that proliferate in the light of day. And it’s really sexy too!” —Ian Kerner, Sex Therapist and New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First.
Leading Dominatrix and BDSM expert Alicia Zadig takes you on a provocative, eye-opening journey into the erotic world of Female Domination and male submission. Zadig explains the psychology behind male submission and answers the question: Why do men crave surrendering to a dominant woman? Hear from the men themselves as they reveal their most intimate desires
Yes, Mistress shines a spotlight on the everyday men who seek to explore their submissive fantasies—an aspect of sexuality that often goes unacknowledged, despite a long history and deep psychological roots. Set at the crossroads of psychology, culture, history, and media, this book challenges society’s perception of BDSM, kink, and fetish.
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a cure for patriarchy? ..... the feminized male.....
the author, Elise Sutton...the Mother of Female domination.
though she passed on a few years back penning 3 books Elise promoted the advancement of women and the recognition of the male submissive. She became recognized as a leading proponent for Female domination and the submission of males.
"My personal experience with Female Domination began in the early 1980’s while I was attending college.
I frequented a pansexual support and educational group that dealt with Dominance and Submission (D&S) within personal relationships. My original purpose for attending a meeting of this D&S group was to do research for a paper on human sexuality."
"I grew up in a traditional, male-dominated household, therefore I struggled with my upbringing and the patriarchal societal programming that had indoctrinated me since I was a little girl. I have always been a spiritual person, a Christian, who loves God and Jesus. While I am thankful for my religious upbringing in that it made me a God- conscience individual, the Catholic Church and its male dominated hierarchy force-fed me a theology that made me view my gender in an unflattering light. This was a major stumbling block for me."
"I developed a love and a respect for the male gender but I also began to realize the male gender’s many weaknesses. I discovered that women possessed the superior intellect and a much higher moral character."
"I evolved in my own personal growth and I became a self-described Female Supremacist."
"By my definition, a Female Supremacist is a woman who believes that women are the superior sex over men. She is a woman who has come to believe that society would be better served if it were governed by women instead of men.
A Female Supremacist believes that women should be in positions of authority, from government clear down to marriage, where the wife should rule over the husband."
"A Female Supremacist believes that women and men are not equal but rather different. She believes that a woman contains the traits that is best fitted to be in a position of authority."
excerpts from one of Her books.......
"Female Domination:
Subspace is a place of absolute surrender and a place where the female rules supreme. It is a magical place within the psyche of a man where he worships a woman with his spirit. It is powerful and it is beautiful. For only a man who surrenders his will to a woman and enters the submissive zone, can fully see a woman in all her beauty and glory."
"My research as shown me what men are discovering is that freedom does not come from trying to maintain control. Freedom will come only when they surrender."
Elise Sutton:
"I believe it is because deep inside, women love seeing the feminine conqueror the masculine. Feminizing a man is the ultimate symbol of the feminine defeating the masculine. it can be such a rush for a woman to feminize a man. It causes a woman's dominant energy to flow out of her and she loves the social statement it makes at the same time."
Elise Sutton excerpt...
"Nadine is a thirty-two year old woman from Europe who has been married for seven years. She is the owner of her own company and the boss of a nice group of University trained male professionals. Seven years ago she married Ned one of her close collaborators. Ned’s macho male ego was on display one day and this led to some unplanned changes in his relationship with Nadine."
"Nadine happened to overhear Ned’s colleagues teasing him about her assertiveness and they teased that she would wear the pants in their marriage. His response was a typical male response as he stated for the record that although Nadine was the boss at work, at home he would be the ruler and, of course, he would wear the pants."
"Later that day, Nadine confronted her fiance about this. He explained that what she heard was simply men talking, joking, and making some silly comments. Nadine did not accept his excuses. Instead, she asked him what would he have thought if she had stated and boasted in front of all her female colleagues, that she planned to be the boss in the marriage and furthermore that she planned to be the one responsible for the decision-making. In other words, she would wear the pants."
"Ned said nothing so Nadine laughed and added, "I might also add to those comments that I will wear the pants and that you will wear ... the knickers ... pretty lace knickers ... that I will choose for you. Would you like if I boasted about something like this?"
"Ned blushed and quickly apologized to her, saying once again that he was only joking. Nadine explained to Ned that his comments had humiliated her and that she did not accept macho attitudes and she wanted to make this clear."
"As this conversation progressed, Nadine found that she was getting excited about dominating Ned. She could see his humiliation and fear as she teased him about her wearing the pants and him being feminized. She became so excited that she made a bold declaration."
"Nadine gave Ned two choices. One choice was to forget their plans to marry. The second choice was that Ned had to accept that Nadine would be the dominant partner. She told him that this would be something private between them. However, he would have to change his boasting to other non-humiliating comments like, "You know, Nadine is very strong willed and most times, she manages to get anything she wants from me."
"Ned insisted on how much he loved her and how much he wanted to marry her. He agreed that she was the one ruling most things in their relationship and that he did not object to that. Nadine was pleased but still not satisfied. She had Ned right where she wanted him so she decided to drop a bombshell on him."
"I think that what I suggested earlier fits very well. You were boasting that you would wear the pants but will instead wear the knickers. Ned looked at Nadine in stunned silence. He never would have imagined something like this. He asked Nadine to please explain.'
"Nadine responded in total female confidence, I mean that you are going to wear panties and female lingerie that I will choose for you, all the time, and with no complaints. I am not going to tell other people about this. I am not going to shame you in front of others. But we both will know that you are wearing panties and feminine lingerie under your clothing."
"I am going to ask you one last time. Do you agree or do you prefer the first option of ending this relationship or will you submit to me? The choice is yours."
"Do you still want to marry me and will you wear feminine clothing in the marriage?" She asked one final time. Ned agreed to her demands and Nadine set the date for the wedding and Ned immediately began to wear her panties under his clothing."
"Nadine bought him a very nice set of bridal lingerie, set their wedding date and Ned did not dare to say a word."
“That meant a lot for me and for our marriage."
"Nadine continues, “In the following years I pushed further his submission and expanded my dominance. And his love for me increased over these years. My husband wears feminine lingerie under his clothes and he is in total submission to me."
"Ned had no desire to be dominant with Nadine. His forced feminization had caused him to accept the submissive role and he was happy in the submissive role. Ned behind closed doors was Nadine’s feminized hubby who adored her and who submitted to her authority in the marriage."
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Elise Sutton excerpt...
"Forced feminization allows a woman to be more aggressive. Forced Feminization causes a man to become weak and submissive. His ability to resist and object go by the way side and he is very vulnerable. Women love this because now they can do whatever they want with their helpless victim. Now the woman can be the aggressor and she can have her way with the man. The man is not threatening to her and she no longer fears his strength or masculinity."
"Forced Feminization also works for Hillary and Raymond. Hillary is a female executive with a large corporation in Texas. She has climbed the corporate ladder and now is responsible for many employees under her charge. Raymond was once a cutthroat corporate type. He was an executive with a different company and he was very high up in management. Then one year his company was bought out by another company and he lost his job when they eliminated his position. Fortunately for him, Raymond had accumulated lots of stock options over the years and due to this merger, his stock options made him enough money that he could afford to retire."
"Hillary loves being in charge so she took to the Female domination lifestyle very quickly. Once her husband lost his job she decided to fulfill a fantasy of hers. She made Raymond into her feminized sissy maid. Hillary totally feminized him and now he spends his days cleaning her house and doing chores for her. Raymond has been completely domesticated."
"It was a process and it took time and determination on my part to feminize Ray ”, Hillary explains. “I developed a technique where I used my dominance and sexual power to force him into deep submission to me."
"Raymond was crazy about Hillary and he loved to be dominated by her, so she used his submissive desires to take him to where she wanted him to go in their relationship. Hillary began to dress Raymond up in woman's clothing each day and used his submissive excitement to motivate him to do household chores for her."
" She also started to have sex with him only when he was dressed in woman's lingerie. She began to get more dominant with him and she turned the tradition sexual tables by incorporating the use of a strap-on rubber phallus on Raymond when he was dressed feminine for her."
" Finally, Hillary discarded most of Raymond’s male clothing and she made him dress in primarily woman's clothing."
"I can't tell you how excited and how powerful I felt doing this to him. He was so macho and he use to treat women that worked for him quite poorly, but now I have transformed this corporate man into my little sissy maid. I could tell that he enjoyed aspects of this as well. Sure he would fight me at times and cop his male attitudes, but I learned how to discipline and control him long ago, so I used my dominant female nature to put him into his place. Now he seems at peace in his new role as my full time house slave. I never would have believed it was possible."
"I rather took him where deep down, he wanted me to take him. He now knows what real Female Domination is about and I love having this power over him."
"You must use a man's sexuality against him until you have him trained. I played off of his submissive desires to explore how he would react to being feminized. I had my husband go to this room we designated as his slave room and I had him undress and bow facing the door. When I came into his presence, I always had on a sexy outfit. I dressed in lingerie or leather, or even just bra, panties, and high heel shoes to stir his sexuality."
"I would have him worship my boots, shoes or feet when I came into the slave room. If wearing boots, I might sit down and allow him to lick them all over and suck the heels. Next, I would dress him up in his outfit, which would be woman's lingerie, or pantyhose, or a French-maid’s outfit, or whatever feminine outfit I chose."
"It is important for the woman to dress the man in the beginning of his training. Don't just tell him to put on the clothes. As you dress him, be real sexy and caress his body with the material. Make it a sexual experience. You are developing a fetish within him. Also, whisper softly as you dress him and tease him about how you are going to feminize him and how he is going to be your slave."
"After he was dressed, I would assign him some chores. I started out slow, maybe only one or two the first few times. Later I built it up to many chores but I wanted him to enjoy being feminized so I made it fun in the beginning. As he went about his chores, I would occasionally check in on him and fondle his body. Again, I used sexuality to control him. Plus, it made things fun for me. The housework was getting done and we both were having a good time."
"After he finished all his assigned chores, I would drive our new role- reversal home. I put on my strap-on harness, I strapped on my dildo, ordered him to assume the position and I took him from behind. Oh, it is crucial that he is still dressed in woman's clothing as you take him with the strap-on."
"This is important. He must equate the feeling of the lingerie with the sexual feeling of being taken by a woman."
"Now that he was feminized, strap-on play took on a whole new meaning. I wanted him to equate the feminine clothing with being the receiver of penetrating sex. This made him docile and more eager to obey me outside of the bedroom. I was touching his submission and his sexuality and this eventually caused him to desire to be feminized."
"I did this routine consistently with him and after I had him trained, I got rid of most of his male clothing and I made him my feminized husband."
"The more macho and reluctant the male, the more personal satisfaction and sexual excitement there is with the woman when she feminizes him."
" Women have told me that they have a very strong desire to take a man forcefully with a strap-on dildo when he is feminized. The desire to be the giver of penetrating sex becomes very real to the aggressive female and the actual act becomes quite satisfying to her."
" Mary Jane met a man when she was taking a computer course at a college in Minnesota."
“The instructor was a small, slim man in his late 20s who wore his hair in a ponytail. He was a good teacher, kind and patient. He was also what I would call "almost pretty. ” I thought he had a feminine appearance, but I know some younger women in the class thought that he was really cute in a way they found attractive."
"We had some casual conversations in which he learned I owned my own salon and I half-jokingly told him I could improve his look if he let me cut his hair. I didn't give these conversations much thought because they were like conversations he had with every student. Eleven months after the class ended, our paths crossed again at a Barnes and Noble bookstore. His very first words to me, after calling my name, were "Are you still interested in cutting my hair?"
"We ended up visiting for about 30 minutes during which he asked if he might come to my town to take me out to dinner. My impression of him, from my time in his class, was of a kind, considerate person, sincerely interested in others. Our dinner date confirmed those impressions and we ended up talking for more than six hours that night."
"Among the many things I learned about him in our very comfortable conversation was his desire to dedicate himself to a dominant woman. Although he claimed that he is heterosexual, he also expressed a desire to know what it feels like to (in his words) "live like a woman." Although I did not communicate, straight out, my dominant nature, I shared my true acceptance of his desires and he was very grateful for that acceptance."
"During this same time period, I was having trouble getting reasonably priced, high quality custodial service for my shop. I asked him if he would be willing to come in and clean my shop nightly if I would help him develop a more feminine appearance. He couldn't have said "yes" more enthusiastically if I had asked him to accept a Million dollars as a gift! For the next two weeks, every evening and each Saturday afternoon, he cleaned my shop like he was polishing silver. On several occasions he even swept up the parking lot."
"Most remarkable of all, was something he did in response to a comment I made during our first dinner together. I briefly mentioned to him that I thought he could easily "pass" as a woman, and off-handedly said that it was too bad his lips were not fuller. Near the end of his second week as my custodian, he arrived with the fullest, most feminine lips imaginable. He had arranged to receive a medical treatment to enhance his lips, and although he tells me it is not permanent, until they recede, his appearance is remarkably feminized. I decided I needed to find ways to take fuller advantage of this man who is kind, considerate, sincere, and is so compliant that he does exactly what I say, even when my wish is expressed as a subtle hint."
"As his reward (he was not being paid for his custodial efforts) for two weeks of excellent custodial work, I told him that he needed to anticipate staying late on Saturday while I changed his appearance. In response to my questions, he assured me that there was no limit to the feminizing procedures I might perform, and considering the lip enhancement he had undergone, I certainly believed him. I required him to arrive with his body waxed, and had referred him to a shop near his home where he could get that done ahead of time."
"Several women rent work stations in my shop, and we rotate the responsibility of closing the shop. On the Saturday afternoon of Ronni's (a derivation of his true name) feminization, only my last two clients and I were in my shop when he arrived.
"Once his brows had been thinned and shaped, the rest of the procedure was like serving any other female client. Ronni really does have a head of hair "to die for” and the full, long, cut and color I gave him was no unisex hairstyle. Even without makeup, his hair, full lips, fine skin, thin face and shaped brows, gave him an appearance almost anyone would 'see' as a woman's face."
"As I applied his makeup, Ronni was actually trembling and whimpering with excitement. His excitement, and repeated thanks and claims that he would do anything for me fueled an overwhelming sexual rush in me."
"I kept Ronni in one of the chairs his face was now about 24 to 30 inches above the floor. I disrobed from the waist down, and wearing only a long black smock over my bra (my usual work attire), I straddled Ronni's chest and invited him to please me with those puffy, pouting lips to which, only moments before, I had applied blood red lipstick. He was already bucking in the chair when my vaginal lips met his beautiful mouth."
"What has happened since was made possible by the fact that Ronni does not teach in the summer. He is living with me and serving me in every conceivable way. Except for the money he needs to maintain his residence, he gives all his money to me, and does virtually everything I ask of him. My house is spotless, his sexual ministrations are totally centered on me. It is common for me to require him to slowly apply lotion to my entire body, ending with lotion being applied to my bottom then penetrating my anus with his tongue while I climax with a vibrator. His naturally androgynous appearance is more feminine than masculine (thanks largely to my attention to his very feminine hair) and almost everyone perceives him as a female. It is unbelievable to me that I have this sweet-smelling slave that will do anything for me and keeps me so turned on that I am having more orgasms now than I have ever had in my life.”
pardon if i went a little long on this post....stumbling onto that Elise Sutton piece i wanted other gurls to see it...
the antidote to the patriarchy? ....for this former young man the femininity of a t-gurl was the solution ...as she awaits the burst of warm cream she's come to enjoy since leaving the loss of masculinity in her past..... peace, alyssa
