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like MLJ's and DLC's gurl Jillian experienced there comes a point... where a male protege realizes the transformation into a different person has taken hold...and the Total Power Exchange is in fact authentic....
to witness former muscle-strength give way to a weaker feeling of vulnerability only adds to the sense of helplessness.
i came to a Dominatrix wondering if it was too late for a Woman to take control.... i learned 'it's not'....
at the time it affected me deeply.... as a demonstration of Her control in our TPE ...starting with my underarms Mistress had me remove 'all' of my body hair...except for leaving a small femme-looking patch of pubic hair trimmed close to the skin....and then told to send in pictures that were to be put up on my pages on tvChix and Her site here.....
it was beyond emasculating... i felt soooo out of place in the 'mens' locker-room knowing my body was near-hairless yet had a cute feminine design of light-haired wispy looking pubes.
from time to time with my nails lengthening kept well-manicured in shimmering clear polish i would catch a few men stealing glimpses of my smoothness. in some ways it was a subtle display if not acceptance of feminine objectification.
forbidden to lift weights i was instructed by Mistress that when at the heath club i was to work on toning and slimming my frame down to a more girlish appearance. my breasts had begun developing enough to fill out the a-cup size of my brassiere's....my boobs had taken on a sloping contour with creases developing underneath adding to the definition ...while being crowned with areola's and nipples that jutted outward.
when brought up by me that it was difficult to shield my growth i was met with the stern reprimand from Mistress....'don't try to hide your breasts or your body alyssa...is that understood?'.
from an amateur Mistress who over the years had transformed her husband... on an advice and consent chat-site with other Dommes.
"My husband and i had been together for 'double digit' years and as I had become older and more confident I decided that I wanted to exert much more control over our domestic relationship. I realistically considered whether it was too late to remove the excesses of toxic masculinity from my husband that I had grudgingly accepted, but which I found difficult to accept any longer."
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"Definitely not, it is never too late to emasculate. Indeed, if you've managed to hold a relationship together that long, then your husband is potentially, in many ways more likely to ultimately acquiesce simply due to inertia / laziness, and the mistaken belief that they can retain control."
"Ladies sending your man to work wearing panties and chastity will be a huge distraction. All day long he'll be thinking about what he is wearing underneath his jeans."
"Mistress C's "Training of Trish"......... It's a bit vintage but I have to say, simply rather delicious and erotic."
Concepts for Dommes: Punishments are guaranteed, rewards are conditional.
"Your sub needs to learn that consequences are always certain. If you threaten him with a punishment for breaking a given rule, he must know without a doubt that if he broke that rule, whether sooner or later, he will be punished. Subs that know this actually feel a kind of security which makes them more obedient. It is only those who are inconsistently punished who feel the need to push the boundaries and see what they can 'get away with.' But ideally, they should know they will never get away with anything, and so don't try."
"On the flip-side of that, rewards should be periodically withheld on your whim. If you promised him, say, an orgasm, for completing certain tasks, don't hesitate to deny him anyway without giving a reason. This will teach him that he is never 'entitled' to anything, and that being obedient doesn't 'earn' him anything: rewards are gifts you give him at your own discretion. Once he knows this he'll never take anything for granted, and will show his gratitude for every reward you give him. You may decided he's earned an afternoon of shopping for a new dress. Be there with him to teach him to always ask for your advice. "
'Chastity will eventually fuck their tiny emasculated minds........... Perhaps they’ll last a week or maybe two or three… but eventually, yes eventually, they will break and they will ache for relief from their all encompassing desire to discharge, and with that......... their acceptance of your absolute power and control is sealed. Ladies savor the moment. '
"Being denied the release of a discharge. (or even that memory of a long lost unfettered erection) seemingly sends their little minds into waves of desperate agreement to any of your whims; the moment is now to forever seal control of the relationship.'
"Ladies you mustn’t stop here; you must raise your game and continue to, quite literally, “fuck” their head-space. In my experience, in their pathetic desperation they’ll agree to anything. anal plugs, they’ll suck, deep throat and self penetrate with phallus’s...... they’ll accept bondage, spankings, prosthetics, make-up, heels or whatever you want, believing this alone will end their torment.......... record it all for future use, ensuring their future humiliation on each replay."
'Ladies, now push on, the goal is to get their head in total “sub-space” and “slut” mode.
Instruct them to verbalize their desperation, and tell them, and get them to repeat and repeat and repeat, (and record it,) that their discharge is now, and in the future, only to be achieved via penetration.' they are to state clearly for the recording device that any manual stimulation is a thing of the past and that you know what is best for them.'
"Then, when through the haze of “sub-space” they realize you’re entirely serious, (which you must be), that this is their present and the future...that “discharge” really is related to penetration.
"They will crave it, beg for it, moan for it, whimper for it, and yes, they will be literally begging to be penetrated and in desperation will clean themselves for it and will dress for it.... all in an effort to end the torment.... Ladies I promise it’s the most amazing power rush to witness and feel."
"They’ll prepare for you wearing lingerie and putting on their make-up, crawl to you on all fours, back-up and present their hole for use and, despite any misgivings, NOW is the moment, you must cement your authority and pound away.
"Once the habit of being penetrated is locked in the time has come to insist on deeper feminization. you may begin having it be a 'weekend' thing yet remind them that eventually they will be dressing and living 24/7 as your woman."
"Ladies, One of a number of universal truths that we should never forget, boys are simply so easy to manipulate. Never underestimate the power of red lipstick and high heels."
"Ladies both men and boys have forever had a fascination over women's breasts. Decades of television commercials and movies have consistently trained their minds with T & A.. Deep in their heart they have always wondered what it would be like to have breasts. It is an opportunity that has presented itself for you to leverage. I am talking about genuine transitioning through female hormones. The same being true of men it is a pure delight to assist a naive young male in transforming into a transgendered young woman."
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"Ladies, realize like I did that the opportunity to have your own maid is right in front of you. Domestic training brings with it an addled mind opening them up for further conditioning.
It was a good weekend, she's cleaned the whole house, laundered and ironed everything, and batch cooked for the week ahead. I meanwhile pampered myself and caught up on Netflix.
As an aside, she's been put in this nub-chastity piece recently as an upgrade and it's brilliant, she'll now be wearing it indefinitely.
When coupled with her elasticated ring harness, (which I have to also recommend for any cage), it keeps her bulge to a minimum and lets me take her out in ever "tighter" clothing, clothing which causes her such delicious anxiety and humiliation."
Ladies, let's talk Insurance photo's of private humiliation.
in the early days as I have explained before Insurance photo's certainly make the inevitable feminized public outings that I insist on later much easier for them to accept that they ultimately have no say in the matter.
"Ladies I've usually enjoyed the "challenge" of "re-framing" the identity of so called alpha males. That transformation is hard work and time consuming, albeit so wonderfully rewarding for the delicious, all encompassing total power exchange rush it creates."
"Ladies the look on an alpha male's face when he knows that he enjoys his transformation makes the past efforts all worthwhile. it is understood by both participants that he wants more of it much more of it. It is then that you realize that HRT is a viable solution."
"Ladies,
Believe me when I say,
"It's never too late to emasculate"
The benefits of FLR's are simply too great to ignore, let's admit it, we've all secretly thought or dreamt that things would be better in our relationships if we were left to make the decisions.
Our happiness should be paramount, domination and emasculation and transformation of your other half is simply a short cut to inner harmony. Try it at your own pace, but speaking from experience, the longer you linger and procrastinate the more you will likely ultimately regret the lost time of too many wasted years."
be well gurls... peace, alyssa
bonus gif: 'oh what a gorgeous cock.'
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