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"this move for men to change their names is handing over symbolic power to the women in their lives."
It speaks to a subtle undercurrent of FemDom....when a male takes the name of his Women when they marry.
In recent years, couples have been forgoing the traditional in their weddings and are challenging one of the most entrenched customs of all, opting to have the groom take the bride’s surname, eschewing an age-old practice considered the norm across many cultures and continents.
according to Laurie Scheuble, an emeritus professor in the Pennsylvania State University sociology department who has studied marital naming conventions she says, evolving cultural attitudes about masculinity and shifting views on what couples are “supposed” to look like point to a slow but steady change for heterosexual couples
A growing number of men, in particular, have started to question the automatic assumption that their wives will take their names, and some have opted to take their wife’s name.
Professor Scheuble said. Men who do so might be seen, she said, as committing “a huge norm violation” by going against “centuries of socialization to keep their birth names.”
While the wedding industry can be slow to adjust when it comes to traditions involving gender roles it is evolving thanks to the greater acceptance of the LGBTQ community...
Here are stories from five men who took their wives’ last names.
..."...the couple especially liked informing their youngest family members of the choice. “Our niece and nephew are growing up thinking that 'it’s totally normal for a man to take a woman’s name', and they’ll expect to have open conversations on what they want to do when they find a partner, which is really sweet and exciting,” he said."
"It only took two dates with his future wife, Taylor Valentine, for Josef Valentine to seal his fate. He said he told her that he loved the sound of her name so much that if they ended up together, he would happily take it on."
"...Once he and Ms. Kane discussed the possibility of his taking her name, “it felt pretty comforting,” he said, “like, ‘Oh yeah, that’s going to be my last name.’”
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men have been taking their wife's last name in marriage. According to a Pew Research Center survey, 5% of men take their wife's last name, while 21% of women do not take their husband's. The number of men who are questioning the traditional expectation of women taking their husband's name is growing,
that means 26% of married relationships no longer fall under the outdated patriarchal view of a man being in charge. when a man changes his name, his decision indicates he’s unconcerned with the public perception of his 'weakness'.
'His decision tells society he’s not too proud to take a backseat to his wife’s established professional life, her lineage.'
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some reasons why men might choose to take their wife's last name:
X) The decision may be more personal and tied to the relationship with the woman he's marrying.
X) The decision may be a way to challenge traditional gender roles and societal expectations
X) men who choose to take their wife's last name may be seen as: less dominant and less masculine, lower status, less respected.
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the Dominatrix factor....
from male submission to feminine transformation.....and the name change that comes with....
it was within a short time of meeting that Mistress secured me as Her submissive....
She soon afterwards assigned me the name alyssa...it had a profound effect on my psyche.... from that day forward She treated me as a transwoman and Her slave-gurl..... i was to be conditioned into accepting that one day i was to become a wife ...with a different first and last name than when i'd originally met Her.... it was part of the process of eradicating my old identity that comes in acquiring a new feminine way of identification....
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Miss Bellemare is Swedish by birth but has lived in Holland for the past 30 years. In the 1980's and 1990's she worked as a professional Dominatrix during which time she came in contact with literally thousands of submissive men.
Bored eventually she opened a Women's only boutique in 1995 selling lingerie and BDSM equipment and at the same time took on Domination as a lifestyle. She acquired a personal slave who has served her 24/7/365 for the past ten years.
My concern here is to provide some guidance and ideas for the Woman who is a true lifestyle Dominant wishing to own and be served by a real male slave. i ant to move from the consensual Domme/submissive role play situation tothe far more satisfying lifestyle Mistress/slave situation in which he, having freely entered into the relationship has given u the right to be treated as a normal human being and had no choice (for whatever reason) but to submit permanently and continuously to his Mistress as a real slave. Having a slave is like having an automatic dishwasher: set it up and make it do the work. It is there to serve your needs. If something is not working right take corrective action until it is fixed.
From sales in my boutique and talking with others in the trade it is clear that Female Domination of the male is on the increase.
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the former male .....given the new identity of...... MLJ's slave maria
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so many arrive at meeting a Dominatrix unaware of Her true influence.....their male ego tells them that they will remain in control and can leave whenever they care to....
yet the reality is it does not take long until the illusion of control is discovered to be false..... the truth is the Mistress has made a lasting impression and established a deep connection in the relationship.... that is further strengthened through the bond of submission.....
essentially it is the creation of a new identity.... through Female Domination of the male....
as the feminine identity takes hold the chances of stopping become remote....
two gurls ......whose feminine persona blossomed...
it seems every action Mistress has you do affirms your feminine identity....
Mistress establishes the goals of gentle femininity....
She helps you believe that not only can it be reached....
but that it will be reached....
when Mistress introduced estrogen into the equation...i offered no objection....
the longer estrogen is within you...
the more you want of it.... peace, alyssa
bonus gif: 'oh what a gorgeous cock.'
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