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change starts with a single step.......
and big things have small beginnings....for alyssa it started out casually meeting Dominatrix Camille one Thursday afternoon on Her page on the Femdom Society site. She had an infectious personality that made you want to interact with Her more.... over the next 2 weeks on Her request i found myself 'checking in' with the Woman that would become my Mistress ...
we soon slipped into a Dominant / submissive dynamic with Her being in control of the conversation flow. a few weeks in Mistress DarkLady suddenly brought things to a crossroad moment. i was to make a decision in order to continue with Her She required that I make a commitment.
I could either leave and never interact with Her ever again ...or....under Mistress's direction i would be put on the path to full-time transitioning. i came to learn it was a place that would see me acquire an evolving Feminine reality....
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a Dominatrix isn't just about doling out the pain and roll play.
In fact, some Mistresses are lifestyle Dommes.... put another way they live the lifestyle at all times and will pull a male into their orbit expecting him to adapt to a lifestyle of their choosing.
for many males it is a way of living that comes with an evolving Feminine reality. a Mistress giving discipline and pain can be quite secondary to Her wielding control and humiliation.
The key to domination is confidence, and while confidence is very much an attitude, a Mistress can also embody it with the words She chooses.
The first thing a Mistress want to do is give him his responses. addressing Her as Mistress or Ma'am establishes Her place as the authority figure moving forward.
In controlling his language-ing She is establishing a new way for him to interact with Her and later the world at large... a Mistress can help establish a feminine mindset in how Her sub speaks...as the months move along he'll find himself speaking like a Woman... this can be enhanced with Her sub learning how to have a soft-spoken breathy speech-pattern through using a higher scale melodic tone and inflection....
the value of humiliation is that it is a process of lessening the sense of 'self-importance' a male has.
sitting to urinate further pulls him away from masculine habits....now like other Females he is relieving himself in a typical feminine manner....
a chastity piece is a form of semen control...it further loosens his grip on his masculinity knowing a Woman controls his libido as well....
over time it actually feels femme-sexy to wear a chastity cage.... dildo's take on a new meaning also...
before meeting Mistress in his world men do the fucking.....and Women are the submissive's...
new nerve endings be awakened ...
the sensations feeling amazing...a shift occurs....
maybe all this time he's had it wrong....
becoming a Woman has is benefits....
he doesn't see it ..not yet...hormones take time...he's having difficulty picturing himself with breasts and sensitive enlarged nipples and areola's....
it's been months since he last wore male clothing....
his thinking has been changing...more and more he's developing an evolving Feminine reality.....
he knows he is on hormones...and wonders how long before Mistress has him living as the gurl she is making out of him....
the contrast striking.... HRT has a way of softening the hard edges....
by the look of her face one can always tell when a gurl has welcomed penetration as her primary source of sexual gratification...
having full-on Gender Reassignment Surgery validates the wisdom of acquiring an evolving Feminine reality....
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always consult your primary care physician ....
TTI created the Feminine Immersion Program, The Crown Jewel of our programs for women. It serves to assist women dealing with public anxiety by helping them develop their feminine beauty, presentation, and confidence. Women from around the world attend this unique, effective, in-residence program, which can extend over 1 or 2 weeks.
Transition is a private, personal, and individualized process. We are committed to providing a safe and affirming place to become acquainted with your gender identity intimately and explore your presentation. One woman attendee will work with the expert instructors to experience fun, gender positivity, education and comfort through each part of the program.
our program consists of....
Vocal Feminization Techniques
Body Language and Movement
Wig Shopping and Styling
Hair Styling
Makeup Application
Skin Care
Fashion Styling
Mentoring and Support Groups
Socializing with other Trans Women
Psychotherapy Sessions
Laser Hair Removal and Electrolysis Consultations
Out and About Program
Benefits....
Living without self-consciousness
Looking in the mirror and feeling proud
Allowing the “hidden you” to emerge
Gaining ability to “just be yourself”
Taking strides towards your ideal femininity
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be well sisters... peace, alyssa
