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maybe its just me ...yet i think there can only be one dominant and one submissive in any relationship or marriage...rarely are there two of the same....
let's start with the premise that deep in their subconscious minds the male creature has an idealized version of what a pretty, submissive Female is...
the average male thinks in duality... meaning they believe things are 'either or'....
right or wrong, white or black, good or bad, dominant or submissive...if they come to the point where they no longer consider themselves to be a man that leaves only one logical choice left...put another way the thinking goes ....'if i'm not masculine then i must be emasculated'.
there are Women that excel at emasculation...of the male creature young and old....
being emasculated by a Woman is one step away from being feminized....
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one could argue many so called men still act like boys not having fully matured mentally despite their chronological age.....
there was a popular blog back in the 2010's/2015's called...Worshipping your Wife.... it spoke to how a mark R. was emasculated and lived under the wisdom of Gynarchy and the rule of Matriarchal Women that included not only his Feminine spouse but also her mother, sisters and many of their female friends who knew of their marital arrangement.
their marriage evolved to the point that mark (sometimes addressed as Suzie) experienced emasculation in the varying forms of being cuckolded, domesticated and even at times feminized loaned out to his women's friends to do housecleaning appropriately dressed in a feminine manner.
an excerpt of a post:
'I came across a highly trafficked femdom Yahoo! Group (or Club) called “Trained Husbands and Happy Wives.” The creator and presiding Domme called herself “Rebeccadom” or “Madam Rebecca.” Her postings were both uncompromising in their assertion of female supremacy and solicitous toward the inferior male sex.'
'Cuckolding is an important part of husband training. When I introduced my husband to a lover on the street one day and my lover kissed me in front of him, it had a profound effect. As soon as my husband got home, he ran and sat in the corner without being told.'
'Cuckold sex with my husband present, and watching, is always better than without, and he now knows that as well. Part of why it is so good is that I know he is there. That I have the power to do this and he will humbly obey and stand by the side.'
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'What this all does is make for very exciting sex. I get variety, newness, long-lasting, good, hard sex. If a lover tires out, I can trade him in for a new one without the messiness of a divorce. I can have several lovers at one time. There is no danger to my marriage.'
'Now I will have my husband tell his side for a second view: ..."The first time Rebecca introduced me to her lover, it was in front of a large shopping mall, and he kissed her as I watched, and it was a big kiss. I nearly fainted. I had cramps in my stomach. I could see she was happy and proud. I thought I would die."
“I walked behind my wife and her lover as they walked arm and arm into the mall and shopped together. I was very quiet on the way home, and Madam was very happy and pleasant. When I got home I just went to my room and sat in the corner."
“Madam came in and asked if I was okay. She wanted to know how I felt. I told her I felt defeated. She told me that was good. I asked why. She then told me to come to her chair and sit on the floor and listen. I did. (note how 'Rebecca Domme' has her husband rest at her feet.)
"She said, ‘For too long now you have been thinking you are a man. Well, you’re not, you’re a sissy. MY sissy.’
“I started to cry and asked, ‘But what if you get rid of me?"
"She took me to her breast and patted my head. She told me that she loved me very much and as long as I was her maid, obeyed her and did a good job, there was no worry."...
"I am my wife’s servant, and I love her very, very much. That means it is my job and I want to please her by obeying her wishes and complying with whatever pleases her. She chooses to date and bed other men and to enjoy them sexually. It makes her happy and makes her feel more alive. Therefore, I fully support her efforts and do all that I can to encourage her and enjoy her affairs with other men."
Her place is head of the house and undisputed leader and decision-maker. My place is maidservant and obedient husband. My place is to obey and please, hers is to enjoy and take advantage of. She loves to see me scrubbing the floor on my hands and knees as she leaves the house to show I am completely subservient and complying with her desire for me to be defeated in all male characteristics, so I comply.
Degradation and humiliation are part of a husband’s training, and there is none too bad for him to endure. As he goes through them, he reaches a new understanding of his place at his wife’s feet and realizes a new inner self. I do not consider either of these as a punishment but rather as education and improvement for the male. Both degradation and humiliation need to be done publicly to be most effective.
" For both of these work best when it is not a secret, but admitted to the world that he is HER property. Until all vestiges of male ego, male superiority, male dominance are eliminated, the Femdom marriage does not truly exist. The danger is that if not removed, the male thinks of all this as a game and plays it for his sexual excitement. He must learn and fully understand that, in a Femdom marriage, he is the object and SHE is the superior being to be obeyed, served and catered to."
"Women want and need control. For a woman to take control of a male, he must submit to her. It must be a willing and intentional act on the part of the male to accept her as his superior and obey her in all areas without question. For him to demonstrate this submission he must openly declare this through publicly showing it to be the case."
"The point is that Femdom marriages are often kept hidden, and if they are to be more common and the norm someday, we need to let others know they exist and that they work and get others interested in them. Advertising this is important to me and should be to all who believe in Female Supremacy as the basis for a happy marriage."
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fact ....x) there are plenty of Woman that are alpha's ....they just need to assert their will over their submissive spouse....
on the topic of whether there are Alpha female's one needs to look no further then the fact there has been the FemDom Ball...held in a public space it is been running for 10+ years.....
note: the male sub's eyebrows have been trimmed to a contoured feminine look ending in a fine point while the Domme has his lips given a beige-matte lipstick application...
it isn't long before femme-submissive behavior in the bedroom spills out beyond its doors.... what can begin as a fun game to spice up a sex life of a married couple can be turned to the Woman's advantage....once emasculation becomes part of an arousal factor.....well let's just say it's hard to put the toothpaste back in the tube once it's out.
fact....x) there are plenty of male submissive's out there...they just need to be exposed...
once penetration is in play.... his former erroneous belief in male superiority in the bedroom has been proved false....replaced with a Woman who has a strap-on...and Her cock never goes soft...
more from the blog...
If you want your wife to be a Goddess, worship her.” — Clairette de Longvilliers
husbands who follow the path of Wife Worship described in these pages find a wondrous thing happening. Not only are they transformed, but so are their mates
His blissful life in a matriarchal household, serving 3 demanding dominant women
Mark characterizes himself as a "wife-worshipper, convert to female superiority
Worshipping your wife means showing her deep respect, admiration
a reader's comment:
"Gynarchy and Matriarchy in the family. Equality does not exist, males are inferior, period! In such families the most radical Female Supremacy is the way of life. Mothers, Daughters, Sisters, Wives and other female relatives are the ones who Rule the inferior worthless males with an iron fist, whether he is the husband, daddy or sons, they are nothing but domestic servants and slaves. Beatings, abuse and degradation is the only way to keep the inferiors in their rightful place. Women are Superior, they have every right to treat their males as they please. | I like to talk with like minded people. | Gynarchy Now and forever ! Smashing the patriarchal."
"I know this is true because I am a product of it. I once worked too; however, my wife was given an executive position and now makes double what my salary was. It only made sense for me to stay home as her domestic spouse and take care of the home. As the breadwinner, she now makes all the decisions for the marriage. She allows me to give input but her decision is final."
the submissive male in a marriage like these goes through a process...
his brain has become re-wired ....the more the Woman dominates him the greater the need to experience his submission is... as was pointed out...emasculation is the last stop before feminization....
once transitioning is in play authentic change becomes permanent.... he's no longer an errant husband but rather just one of the gurls instead...
out drinking with former mates is no longer a concern.....while texting his spouse from the lingerie department
lets see some stunning housewives that at one time had been married men...
hmmmm...kinda reminds me of moira m .....if you're seeing this just thought we'd give you a shout out dear....
be well sisturs... peace, alyssa
bonus gif: 'oh what a gorgeous cock.'
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