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you didn't get here by accident...something within you called for you to search out a Female dominant site that brings male's to femininity themselves.... you were drawn to the principle of Female superiority... and male submission.
it stirs your soul to just think of being part of a New Female Order....not to mention participating in it through your transformation into a lovely submissive t-girl...you're not alone...there are plenty of males who want the same thing you do...enslavement to a Woman, Maitresse Lady J .... being brought into your Womanhood so you may serve Female's as a whole...
a Dominatrix brings clarity...with Her setting an agenda you come to accept the same core beliefs She has.... the first was that as Her slave you have a new owner....
it took me a little time to realize ....under enslavement to Mistress DarkLady i had become a piece of property.
thats one reason why i have no issue being owned by Maitresse Lady J...for me it's no different than being sold to Her....I look at it as though i've been passed on to Lady J by DLC, Her loving spouse ...much like happens when items are transferred on in a Living Trust and Will.
i came to understand a 'New Female Order' is not a passing thought but rather a 'Lifestyle'.....
when i first met DLC born out of some kind of fetish i had a vague idea of what Female dominance was. She swiftly sorted me out...as quick as a hiccup i became a chastised male who was shorn of all his body hair with the exception of a feminine looking patch of pubic hair.
a Mistress has a way of bringing Her 'will' into play...it comes in the form of Her newly femmed-slave taking action.....remembering nothing is real until it is experienced...
i was instructed to regularly use breast pumps and nipple-enhancers...a type of ritual Dominatrix Camille had me put my chastity cage on in front of Her. i was informed that moving forward i had a clitoris... it started the mental process of dis-associating it from a man's cock.
in short order She had me purchase all the things necessary to maintain a Feminine grooming regimen....a set of Lady's razor-blades, cremes, body oil, skin-softening lotions, coconut oil....and a complete arrangement of make-up essentials.
i was instructed to have my ears pierced by the weekend...to get both a manicure and pedicure in a salon...i was to have red polish on my nails and for work allowed to have clear polish on my fingernails...i was to have my eyebrows re-shaped to a more feminine look .
Mistress had a collaring ceremony once i had accomplished what i was commanded to....breasts were soon put in the agenda...She wanted me to have them...She wanted the masculine destroyer of estrogen flowing inside me...
at home i was to be in 'my' bra and panties and a casual-wear outfit near all the time ....or as much as i could....
acting as an acolyte of Mistress Darklady...that was how i was brought into a New Female Order...
about a year after being presented on tvChix as one of Her gurls Mistress had me as act as Her secretary monitoring and posting on the Forum section of Her own site...she also put Her gurl on Fetlife...i was there for varying reasons one of which was to have a social media presence on a BDSM site that had actual Masters as members....i recently passed 7,676 followers and a 182 friends....
it helped me discover there is a whole community of t-girls out there....with many like me being submissive...
we actually message back n forth...here is some chats from the last month or two... some on fiction stories i write also..
jackiejoy 58CD/TV sub
4wMay 15
Your profile is a Masterpiece, the captions you add to your pics has taken me to a beautiful place, and you write with the same beauty, it’s a great inspiration to all of us, with the joy you bring, we all need that mistress to serve, to transform us into a our true feminine being. Now please forgive me for the interruption, and real need to dive deeper into your personal writings that very thankful you shared with all of us here.
Certainly you know you have a great gift that you deserve to share, and with love I’m enjoying.
Jackie
alyssawinters64 60TG Bottom
4w May 15
thank you jackie darlin'...i appreciate the kind words...hearing from gurls like you fuels the inspiration. peace, alyssa
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Jaclyn-Eva-Jade
49TG Evolving
6 days ago
I hope you don't mind, but I am placing the Mantra described in your story Shipwrecked on the Isle of D, on my profile page.
"I am a blossoming flower in the garden of femininity. My name is Jaclyn and my life is about being a woman".
It just really touched a cord with me and I just love it. If you do have an issue with me borrowing from your beautiful work I would of course take it right down.
Jaclyn
alyssawinters64 60TG Bottom
4 days ago
hi jaclyn... no worries...i think it's wonderful that the words capture your sense of femininity.. i am going to friend ping you on Fet... be well, peace, alyssa
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suzijet 80CD/TV
7wApr 22
Dear Alyssa,
You are looking wonderful. Mistress and your hard work are paying off. This may be a dup, but I'd love to have you join us.
This is an invitation, but far different from what usually appears here. There is a gathering of Trans gurls and those that love us in Las Vegas - Oct 9-13. We socialize, go to dinners and shows and otherwise just enjoy being who we are. You will get to meet 100 others who are out to have a good time. You may strike up a friendship that goes further. Think about joining us as registration is limited to 100 and it is a popular event. If you come I promise to hold your hand and make sure you are comfortable till you can fly on your own.
Love,
Suzi
alyssawinters64 60TG Bottom
7wApr 23
greetings suzi; thank you for the gracious invitation. i will give it serious consideration. ...yet I would add outside circumstances might prevent it.
i must say i enjoyed reading your thorough take on the topic of the state of transgender-women in the US. It was quite detailed and full of pertinent information often overlooked by those that oppose the concept of sexuality as being on a spectrum.
i'll look to stay in touch dear suzi...be well my trans-sister, peace, alyssa
while i enjoy making new friends.... i look at it as also my part of being a disciple in a New Female Order....
there are over 10,000,000 members on Fet... while yes there are Masters there ... there also are Female dominant Women who are helping to create a New Female Order...there are numerous groups that have Women and Mistresses leading males into femininity....
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That's the thing about what Mistress DarkLady accomplished....and Lady J is continuing with me ....a male turned femme-submissive who is under 'feminine order' with her New Maitresse........
a site that is actively promoting Female Led Relationships...that is merely another way of saying a "New Female Order'....
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the last sentence is defining......".....that your feminine voice is not only heard but also valued and acted upon."
it is the essence of being an enslaved t-girl....
a Dominatrix wants Her gurls to be as pretty and feminine and submissive and obedient as possible....
from beauty pageants ....
to brides....
on some level all part of a New Feminine Order.... peace, alyssa
bonus gif:...oh what a gorgeous cock.'
